Should you poke a Girl to start a Conversation?
U guess it...the Answer..
NO!
Or even a Wink in some other Social Network websites.
It is ok for women to poke or wink at you. (you are lucky for that!)
This shows there is an interest of them wanting to get to know you.
They be waiting for your response, your lead, to talk to them.
But, us men, poking or winking at them in Social Networking websites like Facebook?
A BIG NO!
I know it's a cool tool but, it is pretty useless...
a beautiful woman getting poke, hundreds tons of times..
U will never attract the attention.
She just simply wave you off as another guy poking at her without sending a message or starting any conversation.
Often, they be removing all those annoying pokes from desperate guys!!
Even messages that she will be getting, don't expect her to read them.
She may just delete your messages fast!
I've talk to one of my hot girlfriend. Once she told me, she had tons of messages in her inbox that she had yet to read.
Imagine her situation receiving hundreds of emails a day, pokes every week..
They sure be annoyed!!
'Cause i'm really lazy to read my msgs..tons of it i haven't reply yet!!' she told me.
Poking a girl isn't cool.
Ain't funny.
When the first day I get to know Facebook 'poking' capabilities, I thought that was sick.
Imagine poking strangers in the street you have not yet talk to?
That was what is in my mind.
Think about it.
Really… nothing beats a good, solid, well-thought first message that conveys a LOT of value without sounding too cocky or arrogant… and that COMPELS her to message you back.
Typically, especially on Facebook, this can be tough. At least girls on online dating websites ARE looking for guys…
But surprisingly, building rapport with a good-looking chick on Facebook is easier than you think!
There are a few key ingredients in a first message that you really need to have. Listen carefully, here… because the first message is probably going to the most important message... or definitely one of the most important.
One of the key ingredients that your first message needs to have is a strong purpose. No, telling a girl that you barely know on Facebook that she’s cute isn’t a STRONG purpose. It’s a rather weak one.
And no… asking her to “webcam” with you isn’t going to work, either! Too many guys do that. It’s way creepy if you haven’t figured that one out yet…
A strong purpose can range from a very intriguing open-ended question to a silly little remark regarding her profile picture. No, a question like “How are you?” just won’t cut it. That may work in real life if you convey strong body language, but online, it must be much deeper… more thoughtful.
You really need to know how to push her curiosity buttons. You need to make her WANT to message you back.
I mean, you can even make a sly little judgment about her… something like… “Hey, you look like you’re on Facebook ALL the time…”
This will make her want to message you back. She doesn’t want you thinking that she’s a computer nerd that has no life… so she’s going to be compelled to message you back and correct your initial perception of her.
Really, it’s quite a simple mechanism that you can exploit.
Oh yeah, and remember… spelling and grammar is always important.
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