How To Be The Man

Or Be A Nice Guy?

Do you know that being nice doesn't work in the dating scene?

No. I don’t mean you start whacking the poor girl, dragging her and left her just like that.

You a whacko, a piece of shit and you go to jail.

I don’t meant you start being abusive towards ladies.

No. Strictly no.

Ok. It makes sense doesn’t it that a woman will get attracted to guys who is attentive, give her what she wants, gifts, treats her well.

Of course it makes logical sense.

Reality check.

It doesnt really work that well.

I can say, it doesn’t work.

Seriously.

As my title says by itself, the term ‘wussy’.

Women aren’t attracted to ‘nice’ guys who do ‘nice’ things for them most of the time, and being by their backside all the time.

Let’s use the term ‘ATTRACTION’ here.

As i have always mention about sub-conscious mind level, it happens in an unconscious way automatically to a certain cues.

OK. We are easily attracted or respond to a beautiful face, nice body, etc of a lady.

For them ladies, hmm…

They happen for a certain reason nobody knows what except them themselves. (On certain occasion, physical attraction do happen though)

I somehow came across this from a certain reading somewhere i cant remember but it got stuck to my head.

“When a woman feels ATTRACTION to a man, she will do things that
seem to be completely illogical, irrational, and even against her best
interests in order to be with the man who is the object of her desires.”

You get that?

Being nice doesn’t work.(in the dating scene)

To an unconscious psychological sense, being nice seems to be an insecure person way, a wuss, and you trying very hard to get her attention. Or she might be thinking, you are bribing her to get what you want. Or her happiness.

You can be nice to a certain level, if you get me here.. But being ‘nice’ doesn’t work in the dating scene.

Have you realise anything out there in the world that is happening right in front of your eyes?

Average-looking men, with a really hot lady in his arms.

I’ve seen one.

Not once, but quite a few times.

Its about personality. ATTRACTION to a personality of someone.

Don’t start being a wuss.

Take control of your reality.

If you're a typical nice guy, considerate, genuine, likes to talk and have intelligent conversations with women then you MAY have been in this situation before.

I do. I never went as far as meeting new women during my teenage time. I was with someone.
But once I became single, I decided to do something about myself and learnt something very important : Being A Nice Guy doesn't create Attraction

Let's Give you Examples.

Do you ever find that the more you talk to her (without escalating physically) you end up talking yourself out of closing the deal. Suddenly you realise her body shift, the conversation die out to some neutral and boring topic, and she starts looking around the room at other couples possibly thinking "man why isn't this guy making any moves on me, does he like me?".

If you know what I'm talking about here then keep reading as you're not alone.


You're sitting there at the table, opposite each other face to face, had a great meal and has these thoughts in your mind running "How do I kiss this girl from all the way over here" and a favorite "I haven't touched this girl all night and it's going to seem awkward if I touch her now" suddenly this distance between you seems to be drawing out and it seems she's further and further away from you.

When eventually you call it a night and you're ready to part ways, and you touch her hand poised to strike her a kiss on the lips ... and she flinches .... then she looks down at your hand like to question you "What are you doing" or "It's too early for hand holding buddy" and all of a sudden a drip of cold sweat lines your neck and your pulse starts racing, palms get sweaty and all you hear is your heartbeat thumping away like the Reggae Drums bongos. pum pum ... pum pum ..pum pum pum ...

Ha!! . . .

Getting a little dramatic here, well this used to happen to me on MOST DATES or rather on my term; on most 'Meet-Ups' and the reason is I let it happen, I knew what to do and how to prevent it from happening again but I was scared to act.
That happened long time ago, but now this NEVER happens to me as I assert my inhibitions and I don't apologise for being a man and thinking AND acting how a man SHOULD act.

I do no longer wait at the end of the date. I act on impulse and it's worked for me ever since I started doing it.

When you wait at the end of the date, to kiss the girl goodbye or whatesover,
it seems you are rushing things and it's like it is the last thing in the world and you have to do it or else. . .
You get what I meant?

Extract from a blog by Alex Coulson:

''The good news and strangely enough the most effective strategy for having more success from the date to the bedroom is to break social norms and follow your inhibitions. Women respond to this more and appreciate this more than the "nice guy" approach. Nice guys finish last didn't you know? =)

Stop watching chick flicks, where nervous "sensitive" actors are making a sissy fool of themselves courting and being gentleman like. Forget hiding behind these social ideals of how dates should go and create the date how YOU want it to go.

The fact is most of us get our knowledge on the dating scene and the "how to" on dates from movies.

Answer this honestly do you ever consult your male friends and ask them what to do on a date? Do you ask your siblings, parents or other family what normally goes down? no probably not.

You get the ideals from movies, film, tv and the MEDIA. Yes, that evil media that manipulates men into buying gifts, expensive diamond rings, working 50 hours weeks to get a good car and an expensive apartment so women will be more responsive to them. The fact is women aren't much more responsive to this as much as you think, I know of guys who take girls back to their hostels (where they share a room with 20 other people) and they close the deal on a bunk bed. They do this consistently too with beautiful glamour girls.

Women want men pure and simple.

What women want is an un-apologetic man who believes in honesty, being genuine and is unashamed of his desire as a man. If the girl says "let's just be friends" which is the dreaded friends zone line he would say "I have enough friends" and walk away or convey he's willing to walk away. Powerful huh.

Women RESPOND to men. Women want MASCULINE MEN to take them in every way possible. They want the man to be most importantly:

-Unapologetic about their desires -True to themselves (don't say things that are meant to impress her) -Genuine and sincere

Don't be ashamed of what you're thinking and be open to touching her and kissing her when you feel like it (Don't plan it or do it just because this is the moment when you "should" touch/kiss her).

I hope you learn from this and start acting out your desires as this is the only TRUE way to live.


We act on what we think is best to our level.
Do not EVER react to a woman's action.
Meaning, when a woman do something, you act upon on it.
That's not the best thing to do.

Act on how you want it to happen. Women will follow your LEAD.

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How To Destroy Jealousy And Neediness

I had a conversation with a friend the other day.

His friend had asked him one day, 'What he should do when a woman he like tried to make him jealous?'

I asked him what did he meant?

'You know, when the girl that you like tells you that she is going to spent some great times with her guy friends for a wild birthday party or some chalet gathering...'

I was like..

'Huh?

Is he having a relationship with her or something?'

'No'.

'Then? Doesn't that tells you or him something?'

You see, she is just a girl he likes.

She is not his girlfriend or wife.

The fact that, she told 'the friend' that she is going to spend a great time with her friends and probably going wild with them and he is not able to make it is enough to drill,scratch, claw the brain juice out of a male's mind.

This is quite common.

After all, we've all had women we find incredibly attractive who haven't quite "noticed us" and cause us to feel jealous of their attraction to other men.

But...

This is not 'jealousy'.

If 'the friend' is having a relationship with her or something, YES

that is 'Jealousy'.

But he is NOT.

He is feeling 'Neediness' in fact.

He is focusing on one girl and put ALL his Attention on her.

Just HER.

Putting all the eggs in one basket so to speak.

This is the mistake most of us guys make.

We get so wrapped up with a girl that when she does anything with another guy,

setting Alarm bells ringing off in our heads!

'Oh no! What am I gonna do?

I had never got the chance to prove myself to her. I like her!

Other guys gonna steal her away from me!!!'

And when we realise there's very Little you can do, Helplessness, Anger, Frustration creeps into our minds.

(These are emotions that will hurt more than help you)

The Neediness feelings.

You feel you NEED to attract this girl to you.

You feel that you NEED to compete for her affection.

You feel that you NEED to prove to her that you are the better man for her than the other guys out there.

However...

Ever ask WHY?

WHY?

Why is it YOU who needs HER?

Why is it not the other way around?

Is the world nowadays going upside down?!

Diversify

When it came to eliminate the feelings of NEEDINESS,

Diversify your choices.

See.

It is easy to enamoured with one woman that we cut ourselves off from great opportunities with other women.

I've been there. I do know there are others who did too.

A mistake we learnt.

When you 'Diversify', you'll start accepting these opportunities instead of ignoring them.

This means, when the girl had other activities with other men,

what do you care?

You had other girls to occupy your time.

And when you had choices, women start NEEDING you.

Now, that's a position you want to be in!

Start having lots of choices instead of just one.

I do know friends who been in a situation where he feel frustrated when the girl of his dreams,

be with some other guy in random instead of him who had spent so much time to be with her when they were not together.. yet..

Have choices..

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How To Get An Ex-girlfriend Back

I had a conversations with quite a few guys, who simply went down the drain after a break-up from a relationship.
I know how it feels like. (been there before after a 3 years relationship break-up).

I've seen guys, who simply was chasing the girl of his dream, but eventually the girl went to someone else instead of him, who have been showing his care and concern etc to the girl of his dream.

I am sure you know how it feels like when these all happened to you in one way or another.
After getting in contact through email with, non other than the man, David DeAngelo,
I was struck in the head with the term 'Wussy' and the term 'Attraction'.

When i let go of my ex 2 years ago, I blamed her for everything. And start acting like a wussy deciding to want her back.

Realization came to me months after that, we cannot put the blame entirely on the women but ourselves.
Women want the REAL man to be with her, not Wussy or Wimp or Pussy.

What does these means?
Simply, guy who tends to behave in a wimpish, submissive, needy, way.

I learnt from my mistakes for acting that way to her.

Women, NEVER EVER BE ATTRACTED TO THESE KINDS...

NEVER

EVER

The term 'Attraction'.

Women may be with a Wuss or married to one, but,
will they be attracted to them?

They will not be.
The Wuss may have lots of money, he may have courted her for years that she finally gave in but will she be ATTRACTED to him?

I doubt so.

Women don’t CHOOSE who they feel ATTRACTION for, and they don’t choose the emotions that they feel either.

It just HAPPENS.

- David DeAngelo


When you have attracted her in the right direction but eventually, you started turning into a Wuss time to time,
women loss that emotion called Attraction, of you.

Women do get frustrated with these when her man suddenly turn into a submissive wimpy Wuss.

One of my girlfriends once told me, 'I get bored with my guy. The longer I'm with him, the more I get bored. It seems that there is nothing between us. It is getting boring.'

I was like, 'Then, why you were still with him?'

The Answer next was not surprising, but I knew it will come: ' Well. I don't want to hurt his feelings. He loves me though. But I don't anymore.'

What I believe is when we guys make a mistake of being a 'WussBag', just like DeAngelo called it, women may just leave and guys will simply feel at loss, asking, What the hell is going on?!

And then the guy might think that, by telling her he still loves her, she may never leave for someone else who is instead a Jerk.

But, of course, it will never turn around.

Ok. Here, let's talk about the specific question. By David DeAngelo

1. “How do you interpret her behavior? Is she still interested somehow or what?”

I interpret her behavior as NATURAL and VERY, VERY PREDICTABLE.

If you do it again in the future, the same thing will probably happen.

Is she still interested?

Yes, she is.

But not in anything more than being your FRIEND.

You have, with your actions and communication, KILLED the ATTRACTION that she felt for you.

This is something you’re going to have to deal with and take responsibility for.

You turned into a Wuss, and now you’re paying the price.

You have to come to terms with your Inner Wuss before improvement can begin.

2. “Is there – according your experience – any realistic chance to get her back, i.e. to trigger again her interest and attraction?”

Well, this is a sticky question.

There is a CHANCE, yes.

But here’s the problem. Probably 90% of the time when I tell a guy exactly what to do in order to get a girl back, he screws it up… doesn’t do it exactly the way I say, etc.

And, of course, he makes things worse in the process.

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THE PROBLEM

Focusing on getting her back will not only lessen the chances, but it will keep you from moving on in your life.

The best thing for you to do is MOVE ON in your life.

Ironically, the way to give yourself the best chances of getting her back is to NOT TRY… instead, go date other women, and be scarce in her life.

In other words, you’re never going to make her feel any ATTRACTION for you again by staying in touch, being her friend, and being “nice”… and by trying to “win her over” again.

It would be nice if things worked that way, but they don’t.

Now, why do guys chase women, and keep doing the WRONG things… even after a woman has left?

In our dealings with women, we guys tend to think things like “That’s not fair” and “I did all the right things” and to feel self-righteous because we’re the good guy… but miss the point and not get the RESULTS we want.

Remember though…

Attraction isn’t FAIR, it isn’t “right”, it doesn’t care how “nice” you are. Attraction can be cruel and painful sometimes.

You know, the irony of your situation is that this girl was probably just as bummed-out as you were about this whole thing happening.

Women HATE it when guys turn into Wussies.

I know, I know… she did things that made you turn into more and more of a Wuss. It’s her fault too… right?

Wrong.

Women do this stuff to TEST you.

They’re not actually TRYING to turn you into a Wuss. But if you DO turn into a Wuss, she realizes that she can’t trust you to be a man and she has to go.

Now, she’s not doing this to hurt you, she’s only doing it because she wasn’t getting the feelings that she wanted with you… and now she’s getting them with Jerk-Boy.

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THE SOLUTION

As I mentioned, your best bet in this situation is to MOVE ON. Get on with it.

Most importantly, start dating OTHER WOMEN IMMEDIATELY.

Not in a few days, and not next week. NOW.

And, stop calling your ex. Stop responding to her quickly. Stop being her WUSS-FRIEND.

It’s obvious that the LAST thing you want is to wind up “just being friends” with her… so STOP DOING IT.

Next time she calls, tell her you have a date over at the house, or you’re leaving to meet a woman. Of course, make sure IT’S TRUE, like I said.

Stop being so AVAILABLE.

Get busy enjoying your life.

Get busy dating other women.

If you find yourself thinking about her and wanting to hear her voice, BITCH-SLAP yourself. If you’re feeling weak, have a friend do it.

And when you do wind up talking to her, say the following:

“Hey, calling for more therapy? No-can-do… I have to run to the gym to get in shape for my hot date on Friday…”

You feel me, dog?

And remember…

In this world, “I was a nice guy and did nice things for her” doesn’t cut it. Attraction has a totally different set of rules… and exceptions. And if you want to get and keep an attractive woman, then you’d better learn them.

It’s a skill, and you’re not going to get it by being “nice” and doing everything your mom taught you…

If a woman feels ATTRACTION for a man, she’ll do almost anything to stay with him. If she DOESN’T feel it, then the chances are slim that she’ll stay around.

These rules are even MORE TRUE when you’re dealing with an ATTRACTIVE woman who gets a lot of attention from guys.

The irony of this situation is that I think it’s a lot easier to make a woman feel ATTRACTION than it is to be a Wuss who chases after her, buys her things, and annoys the hell out of her.

I spent a lot of years of my life being a Wuss.

I made all the classic mistakes.

I should probably be awarded an honorary degree in the subject… really.

But, over the last several years I’ve not only learned how to cure myself and evict my Inner Wuss… I’ve also learned how to make women feel ATTRACTION with my body language and communication alone.

I only wish someone would have shown me this stuff fifteen years ago…

If you’re reading this right now and it’s time that you evicted your inner Wussy, and learned how to make women feel ATTRACTION for you without chasing them, buying them things, and giving all of your power away, then listen up…

THE TIME IS NOW.

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How To Get Woman To Approach You

I think you're really going to like this article.
I've been experiencing this and I decided to find out more about this little trick that I've been playing with women that I find to be attractive.
I call it the 'Eye Contact' game.
We do always look around looking at people right?

Try this game.
Capture the attention of a woman.
Any woman, and lock them in your eyes.
Look into their eyes until you got their attention.
Lock them into your gaze.
My personal find is this: Most girl I find, look away within 2-3 seconds...

(There is one hot girl that did not look away for up to 6-7 seconds before she look away and flinch. I later find out, this is not a good presentation.
Unless, if I smile and she smile or vice versa and our eyes lock. But I didn't smile. A woman will perceive you as weird or whatever, cuz you are staring at her without any action. That's awkward!)

Look at her, lock your gaze, and smile. If she smile back, or she smile first, that is great! You are ON! This potray your confidence to a woman. She is open for your approach! (I should be putting this article in the Alpha Male Tips category, but I keep going)

Here is an article by Thundercat:

'I'm going
to share a little trick with you that I've developed that really
makes it easy to meet a woman.

Too often, guys are simply too nervous to approach a girl because
of the extreme amount of uncertainty involved.

Think about it. What runs through your head when you want to meet
a woman?

"Am I her type?"
"Does she have a boyfriend?"
"Will she find me attractive?"
"Maybe she's too busy to meet anyone."
"Will she be receptive to me talking to her?"

I'm sure you can think of a 100 more things that run through your
mind when you see an approach opportunity come your way.

If you get scared or nervous when this happens, it's because of one
thing:

UNCERTAINTY.

You don't know how the girl you want to approach is going to
respond! So your scared because the outcome MIGHT be negative!

Well, worry about this no more, because with this little trick I'm
going to share with you, you'll never have to worry about a
negative reaction again.

This little trick is so simple, ANYONE can do it! And it's a 100%
fear free tactic.

Ready for it? Good, because here it comes...

***The Eye Contact Opener***

We all know that eye contact is important, but something funny
happens when we make eye contact with another person. We become
COMPELLED to respond to them in some fashion. When it comes to
women, you can use eye contact to find out if she's open to meeting
you. In fact, in a way, she'll be opening YOU!

So here's what you do...

The next time you see a woman you want to meet, LOCK your eyes on
her! Seriously, just stare at her eyes, even if she's not looking
at you.

When people are out and about, they will usually look around to
keep aware of their surroundings. This is an unconscious thing we
all do. Eventually, the woman you're locking onto will look around
to scan the area.

When she comes to you, her eyes will invariably meet yours, and
you'll be locked in eye contact.

When that happens, simply SMILE at her.

If she smiles back, guess what? She's OPEN TO YOU MEETING HER. If
she doesn't, then move on to someone who is.

And when she does smile back, say "Hi!" And if she responds,
you're in! Go right into your opener.

I like to use this tactic in low-key situations, like grocery
stores, coffee shops, book stores, etc. Even though it can work
just as well in bars (as long as the light is high enough that she
can actually SEE you!).

Often times, after you smile, the girl herself will say "Hi!" and
then the rest is easy.

The next time you go out, do this to every woman you see. Lock
your eyes onto them and see what happens. I guarantee you, you'll
be surprised by the results.

And if you're looking for even more tactics and techniques that are
proven to work to help you meet tons of women, check out my book
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With the help of my book, you won't have to use the Eye Contact
Opener! You'll simply be able to walk up to any woman you want and
meet her right away.'

Wishing you success with women,

Thundercat



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How to Tease Women to Create EASY ATTRACTION

Teasing is one of the ways to lower the defensive mechanism of a woman whenever you meet one.
Woman will perceive you as a fun outgoing guy.
Whenever you 'meet-up' with a woman, you don't expect to experience the awkwardness between two parties.
You have to lead to create a fun, happening situation between the two of you.
Laughing, teasing, playful shoving etc.
Will you like to meet up with someone new, and there's the awkwardness in there because it is the first time both of you meet up?
There's a way to make things easy as if both of you have known each other for a long time.
Of course, Teasing a Woman is one of the ways to create Fast Attraction (some other factors to apply though)

Teasing let's you show dominance and be fun all at the same time. It's all in good fun, as long as you're not mean spirited about it.
Here are some Brad P zingers to tease women.


**The Schoolyard Frame**

Here, the idea is to treat the girl like she was the nerdy girl
from junior high. This works better on really hot girls than on
girls who really were the nerdy girl, hehe. But I'm gonna pass
these along anyway, cause I'm assuming that if you're reading this,
you are interested in attracting hot girls.

Aww, you got allergies.
You're like that little nerdy girl in school who has allergies all
the time. So cute.

Do you have an inhaler?

Take it easy, I don't want you to have an attack.

Do you have tape on your glasses?

How about a pocket protector?

Is it OK if I call you Waldo?

Do you have gummy bears in your pocket that are all warm cause
they've been there all day? (credit: Ferris Buelers Day Off)

Well I hope your Mom brings us all some cupcakes for your birthday,
cause if not I'm not going to be your friend anymore.


**Phone Message**

Here's one I sometimes use as a phone message if a girl doesn't
pick up her phone:

"Hey call me back. I'm watching this TV show and it reminds me of
you so much. It made me think of you. Give me a call I'll tell you
what it is."

She calls back every time so far, and then asks what show.
"Beauty and the Geek, cause you're both. It's like you're a hot
chick, but you're also a huge geek. Do you track monkeys with
lasers? Cause there's this guy on there who says he does that, and
I think I remember you saying something about this too."


"...this stuff is super fun once you get the hang of it. The
lines are only 10% of what you need to know though. You've got to
know how to deliver it and calibrate it. You've got to be able to
read which girls like this stuff and which ones are too sensitive
for it. Calibration, the ability to read people, these are the
"intangibles" of dating and seduction."


Ever wonder what really separates a master of seduction from a
student? It's those intangibles. A lot of guys tend to think that
if they internalize everything out there in the world of seduction,
they'll achieve success they really want. It's true to some extent,
but in reality, it's not an easy path to follow if you don't know
where you're really heading. Any average Joe can go online and
purchase an e-book or DVD set to learn the material he needs to
better himself in the art of pick-up... but not everyone knows how to
fully grasp those concepts.

Brad P

You can't expect a magic pill from all the dating material floating
around. After reading some information, they'll
wake up tomorrow morning as a seduction god. Do you think it works that way?
It's funny but true.

You've got to go through a certain process to get those
intangibles. You have to be there, and do it.
And that process requires. lots and lots of focus!

Focus is what really separates the men from the boys. Without
focus, there is no real learning process.

How To Be The Man Woman Love

Have you ever noticed that too often, men
are willing to go against what they think,
feel, and believe because there is a woman
available to them?

And the thing is, the men KNOW that what
they're doing is going to turn out badly,
but they do it anyhow because they want
to be with a girl in some way.

By the same token, many men are willing
to let the women they're with walk all
over them and treat them like crap because
they're getting sex out of the deal (if
they're lucky, anyway).

Us boys have a name for this behavior.

It's called being "whipped."

We've all had a friend at one time or
another who's suffered from this condition.

He's a cool guy, a good friend, but
suddenly he meets a woman and he can't
go out drinking because he's gotta pick
her car up from the shop or take her kid
out to the park, or whatever task she has
assigned him.

And it's not the fact that she needs him
to do things for her, it's the fact that
he gives up any sense of what his life
was in order to please her.

The problem that comes from this situation
is that the guy often not only loses the
respect of his friends, but also the respect
of the woman he's with.

The very person he's trying hardest to please
begins to resent him and take him for granted.

This is why having rules and standards is
important.

It comes down to a matter of SELF RESPECT.

People who have no code, no rules by which they
live their lives, no standards by which they
hold themselves up to, are weak people.

They look for others to give them an identity,
to give them a purpose.

But having rules and standards allows you to define
who you are and stand on your own two feet. People
who know what they are, and are not willing to do,
garner respect from others.

Most unhealthy relationships stem from the
problem of weakness in one of the partners.

Typically, women want a dominant man in a
relationship. And when I say dominant, I
DON'T mean the ball-gag, chains, and leather
whips kind-of dominant.

I mean a guy who takes control of the
relationship and is a source of strength
for the woman he's with.

A man who makes her feel safe and eliminates
uncertainty from her life.

But the woman aside, it's more about making
YOU happy. It's about having respect for
yourself and what you want out of life.

If you have a certain type of woman you want
to be with, don't lower your standards just
to get laid or whatever.

That's not respecting yourself. Go after the
type of woman you want instead of settling for
what you can easily get.

You'll be happier that way.

If you have a rule where you don't want to
date single moms because you don't want to
take care of someone else's kids - or whatever
your reason may be - then don't do it!

If you meet a girl, but she's a single mom,
stay true to your rule. There's a reason you
made it a rule in the first place, right?

In the end, having rules and standards makes
you a more attractive person, because it conveys
confidence and conviction, two traits women
always find attractive in a man.

And as you know, women are complicated beings,
and it seems most men are clueless when it comes
to dealing with them!

So let me ask you this...

If you have more questions about how to be
successful in your love life, what would it
be like to have all those questions answered
and enjoy attracting the incredible women
you've always dreamed of?

Maybe there's a girl you want to meet?

Maybe there's a girl you want to take out on a date?

Maybe there's a girl you just want to sleep with?

But how do you DO all this with the women you want?

Well fear not, my friend. Because answers
are here. And with answers, comes hope.

Listen, we all know what it's like to struggle
with women.

Sometimes you're too afraid to meet them because
you don't want to be rejected. Sometimes, you're
afraid to ask them out because you don't know what
to do on the date.

And sometimes, you might even be afraid to "close
the deal" because you don't know what to do in
the bedroom!

All of your problems can be solved with one
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Knowledge.

Knowledge and the will to apply it!

In my time learning to be successful with
women, I've gotten to meet some of the best
dating experts in the world! And they've
taught me some amazing secrets to their
success with the fairer sex.

But after a seeing how incredible this
information was they were sharing with
me, I started to feel guilty.

Guilty that I was privy to all this
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What would it feel like if you could go
out on a date, confident that it was going
to end the way YOU wanted it to?

What would it feel like to be so amazing
in the bedroom, you've literally got women
BEATING DOWN YOUR DOOR to be your willing
love slave again and again?

When you literally FEEL that kind of
confidence around women, you won't even
have to work at getting them! They'll be
the ones trying to get YOU.

That's not a lie my friend, nor is it
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The great thing is that you CAN feel
that way. You can walk through life
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enjoying success with beautiful women,
despite your looks, social standing,
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How To Approach Women

..on The Street?
Have you ever met someone you saw on the street, and you feel like 'I wish I could go over and talk to her' 'How can I go over and seduce her?'
'What should I say?' 'Maybe she has a boyfriend...'

'If you are thinking "I wish I could go talk to her" when you see a hot woman in a public place, it’s a sign that you are not taking advantage of the easy places to meet women in your life.

The thought "I wish I could go talk to her" is the result of a life where you have eliminated all reasonable opportunities to meet women. Therefore the unreasonable, most-difficult opportunities — while on the street, while she’s running for a cab — are the only ones that pop up. You end up thinking that the solution is to get good at handling the only opportunities you see — the near-impossible ones. It’s not.

You only moan about not being able to meet women "on the street" when you are NOT meeting women in all the places that you should meet them — social networks, niches, classes, and by being generally involved in your life. Moaning about wanting to meet women on the street is a SYMPTOM of needing to do the basic work of meeting women.'

by Ron Louis & David Copeland

Or you may risk singing this song to yourself thinking bout the woman you met at the bus stop but never approach. Listen to it and you get what I meant.

I experience this twice before, in the train.

I was sitting down, and notice a cute girl standing in front of me.

I look at her for a moment, and continue reading my newspaper.

I think she saw me as I caught her staring at me, looking away when I look at her, and looked at me back when I continue reading. After the guy sitting beside me on the right alight, she took her sit beside me.

And I notice something. She was checking me out.

Quite a few times, I caught her looking at me. Once, she was looking at my arm.

I can tell why because I was wearing this shirt that once my bunkmates told me,

I look like a fit-looking man with tight bulging muscle gonna tear off my shirt any moment. =p

Too bad, I didn't make my move to talk to her. *Deserved a whack*

She was already open to us men to approach her, and that is the opportunity for you to take to approach her easily.

Another incident. Same style. Same pattern, but this time I was standing, leaning against the wall of the train, with arms crossed. Notice this cute lady, a few meters away.

Well. You know when a woman is interested.

Try this.

Look around and try to capture the eyes of any women.

When you manage to get one, lock into her eyes for a few seconds.

Usually, it took 3 seconds before the girl look away, then look at you again when you are not looking if you smile at her earlier.

When she smile at you, she is open for your approach!

The hotter ones usually took 5 seconds before looking away. Do smile at her, and if she smile back, YOU ARE ON!!!

The girl that I was talking about started to stand nearer to the door where I was standing.

She turn towards me a few times, play with her hair and was frequently adjusting herself.

I know I know. I should have approach her.

But I was not that up to the peak yet.

When I do realise she is alighting, it took her three seconds before she step out of the train even though the door was open for her.

You might say this is a coincidence, but isn't it obvious.

Only her was alighting at that door.

She look at me before alighting, adjusting her hair, sway here and about before alighting the train.

I know, I should Have APPROACH her given that opportunity.

Learnt from mistakes.

Do what you have to do to get her attention by locking eyes on her.

If she is looking at you , smile.

When she smile back, look away slowly and turn her head onto you again, IT IS ON.

She is open to your aprroach.

Stop guessing.

Just go and start the conversation.

We’ve said it a million times, but it’s still true: if you don’t have your life set up so that meeting women is automatic and easy, all the quick-fix claims in the world won’t do anything but separate you from the money in your wallet.

• If you aren’t joining and visiting clubs and teams, you are going to end up longing for women you can’t get, who are the most difficult to talk to and seduce.
• If you aren’t saying "yes" to social invitations and developing social groups, you are going to end up alone and horny, wishing you could have sex with the hot barista at the coffee shop you frequent.
• If you aren’t participating in activities and classes, you are going to start moaning about how you wish you could talk to some woman you see on the street somewhere.
• If you are not doing online dating, then you’ll spend your life staring at a woman on the bus and dreaming about how great it would be to be able to walk up to her and seduce her.

Unless you are willing to have balls of absolute, inhuman steel (which you aren’t) and unless you are willing to develop a set of scams and routines (which you also probably aren’t), then stop thinking the answer is to learn to approach a supermodel who is running for a cab! It’s not!

Thinking "I wish I could talk to her" is NOT a sign that you need to learn how to approach strangers in public, where every hot woman is angered by or terrified of new men talking to her.

Thinking "I wish I could talk to her" IS a sign you need to GET A LIFE.

There is no magic phrase or perfect opening line that can take the place of getting a life!

Actually, though, this is good news. "Getting a life" will make you increasingly happy and effective and connected with women in a meaningful way.

by Ron Louis & David Copeland

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How To Be Good With Women?

Stop being a WIMP! Stop Being a WUSS! Don't be a PUSSY...

Stop complaining.
And act on it.



Ever thought of this before in your life?
Don't tell me you don't.

Some people do hate people that are good with women.
I don't understand why.
Don't you think it is great to have your social life skills handled?
I know a friend.
He is good with women.
He did told me one day, sometimes girls that used to be with him, call him,
To be with him.
To spend the night with him.
Well.
At first I don't believe him.
I hate his style for being a player. (can you believe it?)
Until one day I asked how he do it.
(I just broke up with my ex and was finding a way to fix myself)

Continue to READ MORE...

How to Be Good with Women?
The important step is to stop acting like a Wuss. Quit doing it!

Get your inner pussy side out of the way and just go for what you want.

#1 Learn to get to know about 'you' and accept it

You have been through many downtimes?
The best way to deal with it?
Stop acting like a Wuss, begin forgiving yourself for acting so foolish in the past.
When I see guy friends, usually putting their Instant Messenger nickname as facing trouble, being so down for a girl, he gonna die because she left him, he's missing her where you go all those stuff, I feel them. I pity them
I know how it feels like.
But if you realise, that is a Wuss attitude.
Especially those looking to get his feet up and going, showing that kind of emotion to the world,
it is near impossibility to create a new attraction for a new girl.

Learn from the past mistakes, the blunders you made, and love yourself. =)
The worst type of self pity is thinking yourself as too fat, too skinny, too old, too young, too ugly, too dumb to attract girls.
Pick yourself up, stop acting like pussy and get yourself going for the women you are attracted to.

GO!

#2 The Approach Phobia

The more you think about it, the more you hesitate, the more your inner wussy will eat out your confidence.

Seriously!

Just. GO. For. IT

If you have an issue of taking it further, quit thinking bout it.
Just begin your move.
When a men can't lead, women honestly will tell you they will walk.
When they 'sign' up a date with you, they thought you will be worth it.
Don't waste your time.
And stop thinking a lot.
Just go for it.
The more you think, the more you will get stuck being a wimp.

Go figure and think about it.

Getting rejected? That is not a reason to be a wimp

Sometimes, we take rejection badly. We need some time to recover from that wound. But for how long?
Take me for example.
I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 and a half years.
Even though I was the one who broke up with her, I wanted her back.
But then things start to sour.
Within weeks, she found someone new.
The Ego inside me was 'out-of-control' and start acting like a wimpy wounded human wanting his love back.

The way I potray myself, makes her go further away of course.
I was even dating someone else at the moment.
But I still want her.

It took me 6 months to realise and bounce back.
Why took me so long?
Because I do not know.
But now you know.
You don't have to go through all those bullshit stuff.

Relax.Deal with the frustration.
Wash away your wounded ego. Put a bandage on it.
Quickly bounce back and and back in the game.
Pursue the woman you want in your life.

Being heartbroken and keeping to yourself for awhile doesn't do you any good.
Why must you cry over buckets on the problem if you can spend time going for what you really want instead regardless of any pressure,guilt or fear.

Keep in mind : Let the problem lingers for a while not longer. Bounce back, into the game.

And don't second guessing.
If you think you will have problems approaching women, the more you put in the believe you are unable to approach one.
It is the worst thing!
Women are out there, waiting for your LEAD.
Remember this.
They are waiting for you to LEAD where you wanna take them.

Take em for a Ride~

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How to attract a woman who's already in a relationship with another man?

I know this may sound crazy to you.
You may call this a Boyfriend Destroyer techniques I suppose..

I am sure you may have that feeling of wanting that girl who already has a boyfriend.

Face it: If a girl is worth her salt, chances are she's already "seeing" someone.

This means you got some hard competition, buddy.

Have you ever had a situation where you met the girl of your dreams, and she was already taken by some other guy?

Well, here's the good news...

It IS possible to get the woman you want, even if she is currently seeing someone else.

Here's the thing:

If a woman is truly happy in her current relationship, there is NOTHING you can do that will make her cheat on the man she is with.

Period.

What does this mean?

Simple... it means that if a girl cheats on her boyfriend with you, then chances are she wasn't happy with that relationship anyway.

So now that you're off the hook morally, how do you go about "wooing" her away from her man?

Well, there are a few things you need to focus on if you want to get the other guy's girl...

The first is your INNER GAME.

This has to do with bolstering your confidence and belief system so that you become WAY more appealing than the man she's currently with.

You know the tricks and games. Teasing her, be very harsh to her (in a teasing way), never allow her a chance to get what she really wants(when she wants you to do something with her , you do the opposite or do things of your choice, be challenging to her etc.

Read More Here

The second is CONNECTION.

You have to form deep emotional bonds with a woman that will short-circuit her logic centers and guilt about cheating on her man - to the point where she just CAN'T HELP HERSELF!

It works well for me with a girl at my Workplace. =D

So if you want to learn the absolute best way to do these two things, so that they become AUTOMATIC when interacting with women, check out this course right away.

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Disclaimer : I do not encourage this though. She may be attracted to you however, all the power is on you. Either you bring it to the next level, or make it clear that she has that someone. Might as well both of you guys know the limitation in relationships with people. ;)

How To Never Be Nervous Around Women Again

We, or rather young Juaners lament the fact they can be smooth,
charming, and being Suave when dealing with women they are not attracted to.
But, as soon they met with the ones they are attracted to,
they become nervous, quivering wreck.

They get upset, angry at themselves, and even depressed. They feel that their nervousness is holding them back and preventing them from expressing who they really are... and getting the women that they really want.

I've been there and even talked to some guys and their experiences.
So, I know how it feels like.

"How can I relax when I'm around women that I'm attracted to? How can I control my anxiety and nervousness so that I come across as smooth and charming, rather than tense, anxious, and just plain strange?"

Most of the traditional strategies for reducing nervousness in these situations fall into one of the following two categories: either you learn to tell yourself certain things designed to knock this lady off the pedestal you have her on, so that you can begin to see her more like an ordinary human being and less like a Goddess, or you modify your "catastrophizing" thoughts so that you come to the realistic conclusion, perhaps via trial and error, that the world will not come to an end if this particular lady decides not to jump your bones.

Both strategies work fine, as far as they go.
But personally, I prefer to use the following.
This particular strategy fits into neither of the above categories, and, quite frankly, is much easier to implement and a lot MORE FUN.
Not only will you not feel nervous, but you'll also benefit from enjoying the sensations of infatuation, while learning to use those feelings to your advantage in attracting women.

Okay...

The first and most important thing you need to realize, is that being nervous around a woman that you're attracted to isn't necessarily a BAD thing.
In fact, it's actually quite a GOOD thing. It's something to be happy about, something to relish... because any woman who can make you feel nervous, tense, or even frightened, must be quite an amazing woman.

Think about it.

If she's having this kind of effect on you, if her mere presence is enough to make you sweat like a pig and utter completely nonsensical phrases, she must be pretty dadgum special!

Right?

This is wonderful. This is awesome.
This is not the type of thing you should be depressed about and trying to "fight."
This is the type of thing (and these are the types of emotions) you want to embrace, enjoy, and even celebrate. Yet most guys interpret their nervousness from a negative point of view.
They mistakenly think that the anxiety and nervousness that they experience whenever "she" is around, is something that must be eliminated.
Something that must be overcome. Something that true "Don Juans" never experience.
This is a completely harmful and negative way of thinking.
I mean really, wouldn't it be boring if you never met any woman who made you feel this way? If you never met any woman who made you anxious, nervous, and babble like an idiot? If you just felt your normal, comfortable, relaxed self around all women?

BORING!

No, the women you WANT are the ones who make you weak in the knees.
The ones who make you nervous, sweaty, and whose mere presence is enough to drive you crazy. Yes, these are the women that make life worth living.
So remember, being "nervous" is a GOOD thing and a sign that you've met an amazing woman... and a woman with the potential to make you very happy.

The second thing you need to realize, is that your nervousness may not be nervousness at all. In fact, what it actually is... is EXCITEMENT.
I mean really, this is an incredible woman, right? Drop-dead gorgeous, charming, intelligent, funny.
Maybe the woman of your dreams, the one you'll marry and live "happily ever after" with. Sounds like a pretty good reason to be excited to me.
In fact, if you're NOT excited about meeting such an incredible lady,
THEN I'd say you have the problem.

Remember that emotions differ from one another mainly in how we interpret them, not in any type of distinct physiological state associated with them.
Thus, the state of physiological arousal which accompanies a feeling of nervousness is pretty much the same state of physiological arousal which accompanies a feeling of excitement.
The only real difference between the two is that in one situation we're telling ourselves that we're nervous (a bad thing), and in another situation we're telling ourselves that we're excited (a good thing).
And if you think about it logically, there's absolutely no reason to feel bad (nervous) when you're around a magnificent woman.
But there are a whole heck of a lot of reasons to feel good (excited) when she's around. Thus, whatever you decide to tell yourself, and believe, will determine whether you feel nervous (bad) or excited (good).
You simply need to "direct" your mind to the desired emotional response.

So feel the emotions.
Don't fight them.
Feel the excitement within you, the adrenaline surging throughout your veins, and rather than thinking,

"Oh no. Why can't I relax? I'm going to say something stupid and blow it again."
think,
"WOW! What a magnificent woman! I definitely need to get to know her better."

Thus, you consciously and deliberately transform the "nervousness" into "excitement."
And you feel good. Excited is good, right?

Now the third and final thing you need to do is to channel those "excited" feelings into behaviors and personality traits that women will find attractive.
And the great thing is, once you've completed the first two steps above, the attractive behaviors and traits will appear automatically.
Believe it or not, that excitement you're feeling will actually help to make you more attractive to women.
The excitement will come through in your attitude, your voice, and your body language.
You'll ooze enthusiasm and energy... both of which are highly attractive qualities to women. You will then have a tremendous advantage in attracting this woman AND setting yourself apart from all the other guys.
The cool, suave guys who never get nervous and who always seem relaxed around women will seem boring compared to you.

And all you really did was to recognize that she was a magnificent woman, let yourself feel the excitement within you, and then channeled those feelings into energetic enthusiasm.

What woman could possibly resist?

Allen Thompson

How To Be Attractive To Women

This is a video by David Black.
In this video, he discusses some of the 'attraction factors' with women.

We don't have to be manipulative to women, learn all the lines, tricks or techniques etc.
Like Carlos Xuma have said: 'it’s how you demonstrate something VERY unique to you that no one else can imitate.'

Click play and Watch the video...

How To Tell If a Woman is Interested In You

"How do I know if a girl is interested in me? I find it hard to read her attraction to me when I'm so busy trying to show her my self-confidence?"
Had these questions in mind?
The key to this question is understanding your correct attitude: You don't NEED her to like you. It's okay to WANT it, but don't become so attached to every encounter with a woman that you end up NEEDING her to like you. That's the train to nowhere, and it will leave soon if you even begin to go that route.
I've seen many indicators and after many experiences, I do see something common in most encounters. After talking to a friend, we do agree on these things.

There are many indicators of a girl's interest in you. You just have to know where to look. The primary three are these:
1 - Actions (What she does that indicates her interest obviously)
2 - Words (what she says to you)
3 - Body language (what she does that indicates her interest subtly)
These are also in order. You trust her actions first, her words next, and her body language after that. If you're getting clear buying signals in her actions, ignore her words. If you get interest from her words, ignore her body movements. Your last resort is to interpret her body language.
1) The first indicator is her actions to tell you she likes you. Always watch what she does first, and ignore her words if they don't jive with the way she behaves. Here are a short list of "she's interested" indicators:
- She touches you or leans in close
- She makes it a point to smell your cologne
- She takes you along with her to another place with you (eg. bar/dance club)
- She initiates conversation with you
- She asks for your number (but only if she asks before or after giving hers. If she refuses to give you her number, she's not interested.)
- She looks you over (especially glances at your mouth)
2) The next thing you listen to is her words. What does she say to you? Here's a list of things that indicate her interest verbally:
- She asks a lot of questions about you
- She talks about sexual topics (without you initiating them)
- She uses very sensual words when describing you
- She tells you secrets (indicating trust)
3) This next list is more difficult, since you will have to refine your radar as to what her body language is saying. It's much more subtle, and more difficult to read. Again, I always suggest that you make sure to judge her body language only when you have no other evidence to help you out.
Here are some buying indicators:
- Occasional glance(s) from far away
- Looks at you a few times (flickering glances at your lips)
- Holds your gaze for a moment with no words
- Looks down, then away
- Goes out of her way to laugh with you
- Posture changes, looks alert
- Covers her mouth or touches her face
- Adjusts hair, attire
- Faces you
- Alert, energetic
- Pupils are dilated
- Open posture (arms uncrossed)
Remember that your primary indication of interest from any woman is in her behavior. No matter what she says, if she isn't DOING the things that a woman that would do who is interested (smiles and talks to you, shows interest, gives you her phone number, etc.) she isn't REALLY interested. She's just trying to not hurt your feelings.
Results are the TRUTH!