..on The Street?
Have you ever met someone you saw on the street, and you feel like 'I wish I could go over and talk to her' 'How can I go over and seduce her?'
'What should I say?' 'Maybe she has a boyfriend...'
'If you are thinking "I wish I could go talk to her" when you see a hot woman in a public place, it’s a sign that you are not taking advantage of the easy places to meet women in your life.
The thought "I wish I could go talk to her" is the result of a life where you have eliminated all reasonable opportunities to meet women. Therefore the unreasonable, most-difficult opportunities — while on the street, while she’s running for a cab — are the only ones that pop up. You end up thinking that the solution is to get good at handling the only opportunities you see — the near-impossible ones. It’s not.
You only moan about not being able to meet women "on the street" when you are NOT meeting women in all the places that you should meet them — social networks, niches, classes, and by being generally involved in your life. Moaning about wanting to meet women on the street is a SYMPTOM of needing to do the basic work of meeting women.'
by Ron Louis & David Copeland
Or you may risk singing this song to yourself thinking bout the woman you met at the bus stop but never approach. Listen to it and you get what I meant.
I experience this twice before, in the train.
I was sitting down, and notice a cute girl standing in front of me.
I look at her for a moment, and continue reading my newspaper.
I think she saw me as I caught her staring at me, looking away when I look at her, and looked at me back when I continue reading. After the guy sitting beside me on the right alight, she took her sit beside me.
And I notice something. She was checking me out.
Quite a few times, I caught her looking at me. Once, she was looking at my arm.
I can tell why because I was wearing this shirt that once my bunkmates told me,
I look like a fit-looking man with tight bulging muscle gonna tear off my shirt any moment. =p
Too bad, I didn't make my move to talk to her. *Deserved a whack*
She was already open to us men to approach her, and that is the opportunity for you to take to approach her easily.
Another incident. Same style. Same pattern, but this time I was standing, leaning against the wall of the train, with arms crossed. Notice this cute lady, a few meters away.
Well. You know when a woman is interested.
Try this.
Look around and try to capture the eyes of any women.
When you manage to get one, lock into her eyes for a few seconds.
Usually, it took 3 seconds before the girl look away, then look at you again when you are not looking if you smile at her earlier.
When she smile at you, she is open for your approach!
The hotter ones usually took 5 seconds before looking away. Do smile at her, and if she smile back, YOU ARE ON!!!
The girl that I was talking about started to stand nearer to the door where I was standing.
She turn towards me a few times, play with her hair and was frequently adjusting herself.
I know I know. I should have approach her.
But I was not that up to the peak yet.
When I do realise she is alighting, it took her three seconds before she step out of the train even though the door was open for her.
You might say this is a coincidence, but isn't it obvious.
Only her was alighting at that door.
She look at me before alighting, adjusting her hair, sway here and about before alighting the train.
I know, I should Have APPROACH her given that opportunity.
Learnt from mistakes.
Do what you have to do to get her attention by locking eyes on her.
If she is looking at you , smile.
When she smile back, look away slowly and turn her head onto you again, IT IS ON.
She is open to your aprroach.
Stop guessing.
Just go and start the conversation.
We’ve said it a million times, but it’s still true: if you don’t have your life set up so that meeting women is automatic and easy, all the quick-fix claims in the world won’t do anything but separate you from the money in your wallet.
- If you aren’t joining and visiting clubs and teams, you are going to end up longing for women you can’t get, who are the most difficult to talk to and seduce.
- If you aren’t saying "yes" to social invitations and developing social groups, you are going to end up alone and horny, wishing you could have sex with the hot barista at the coffee shop you frequent.
- If you aren’t participating in activities and classes, you are going to start moaning about how you wish you could talk to some woman you see on the street somewhere.
- If you are not doing online dating, then you’ll spend your life staring at a woman on the bus and dreaming about how great it would be to be able to walk up to her and seduce her.
Unless you are willing to have balls of absolute, inhuman steel (which you aren’t) and unless you are willing to develop a set of scams and routines (which you also probably aren’t), then stop thinking the answer is to learn to approach a supermodel who is running for a cab! It’s not!
Thinking "I wish I could talk to her" is NOT a sign that you need to learn how to approach strangers in public, where every hot woman is angered by or terrified of new men talking to her.
Thinking "I wish I could talk to her" IS a sign you need to GET A LIFE.
There is no magic phrase or perfect opening line that can take the place of getting a life!
Actually, though, this is good news. "Getting a life" will make you increasingly happy and effective and connected with women in a meaningful way.
by Ron Louis & David Copeland
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